NaBloPoMo 2020 – Today’s Lesson
Text from a conservative relative:
I get it, you hated him 4 years ago and you still hate him now, I’ve seen a lot of hate thrown his way, but this guy is a consistent winner and an overachiever. That’s what the people who support him love about him Yes there have been some scandals, yes there have been some lies, and maybe a few times he’s twisted the truth to make him look better. He’s out there everyday proving those haters wrong time after time. Call it jealousy, call it envy, some people just can’t handle how successful he is and how much money he has, could even be jealous that he’s got a hot foreign model as his wife. You may not have wanted him in his role, but he’s there now and there is nothing that you or I can do about it. I know it’s possibly going to get worse over the next several days, but like him or not, Tom Brady is turning things around in Tampa.
I confess, I read this while stopped in traffic, so I may not have paid enough attention (ahem). Also it’s not a text from my relative; it’s a friend’s Facebook post.
It’s an exercise in attention, assumptions, priming, and susceptibility. And man, was I duped. I got to the end and thought, huh, that was a weird non sequitur–firmly stuck in my own narrative. What hijacked me most was, “nothing [we] can do about it.” I was not alone.
I wonder what myriad important perspectives, learnings, and connections I have missed, shuttered by my own biases? How much fuller could my life be if I managed them all far better?
How much better for us all, if we all did?
“some scandals”, “some lies…” – it is really interesting how people try to minimize the negative and exaggerate the positive. It is like they have their own inner politician trying to convince them they are making the right choice.
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Hi Mark! So sorry I missed this comment. You describe here our classic capacity for rationalization, no? I wonder (I think I know 😏😕) where I do it often… 🤭