NaBloPoMo 2020 – Today’s Lesson
Where do you fall into dogma traps?
Back in March I told friends not to wear masks in public. I was angry at people for hoarding PPE for personal use when hospital workers did not have enough. My classmates sewed cloth masks for nurses while people perused grocery stores wearing N95s around their chins. I stated my opinions strongly and ate those words later.
This week I find myself softening previously strong opinions about in person school and personal gatherings. I have successfully sought varying perspectives on these issues, and not always so successfully incorporated contrary information into my perspective. At the end of summer I could not imagine how hordes of kids could be brought back to school safely. Now I have seen multiple accounts of schools and universities that did it safely. The keys: Cogent plans based on local conditions; heavy investment of myriad resources; and constant, clear communication. While I worry increasingly about family gatherings for the holidays, it looks like restaurants, bars, and churches may still be the chief culprits of the current COVID surge.
I still get a little palpitative hearing some patients’ plans for Thanksgiving, and picturing college students coming home this week. It could be bad. But thinking in broad, overgeneralized terms, and especially making skeptical assumptions about people and their motives, doesn’t help anything. I just get grumpy, and my neck hurts. We messaged our patients about how to do the holidays safely. Though not quarantining, many have tried earnestly to minimize exposures in advance of gathering. It could be okay, maybe.
We are all doing our best. I speak and write about withholding judgment and being present with generosity. Now is a good time to hold myself accountable to that standard.