NaBloPoMo 2020 – Today’s Lesson
How have you maintained and nurtured your ties this year?
As the days get shorter and colder, I feel the annual personal regression set in. In 2020, this carries new and important implications. The busier I get, the more I value quiet and solitude. But my soul sings in connection—broad, frequent, and deep.
Since March I count at least six new, recurring engagements with friends and family, occurring over phone, Zoom, and snail mail. They have all held me up and calmed me down through tumult. And they all occurred organically—all of us seeking comfort, connection, and meaning through the chaos and morass. All signs point to these as my social and emotional beacons through the coming winter. What will your beacons be?
At work, this year has tested our teams. Even the most resilient ones have strained under the stress of complex and prolonged uncertainty. Though we returned to work in June, we are still not together like before. We’ve had to find new ways to stay connected, including weekly video calls and now the possibility of daily, one-song, video dance parties. I see more clearly now where I can connect more regularly one on one, and how individuals may need me to show up in different ways. I would have told you for many years now that I understand this concept; today I feel at least one step closer to living it for real.
Relationships are already hard. Cultivating and sustaining healthy ones in the midst of crisis, in an increasingly Volatile, Uncertain, Complex and Ambiguous (VUCA) world, takes extra attention and effort. I must constantly attune and retune.
Every encounter is an opportunity to try; it makes me better, and I’m grateful.
Beautifully said Cathy! I have been so grateful for our friendship and our regular connection through these times. When can we schedule our next call?!
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Hello Dear Friend! I was just thinking the same thing! I will message you. 😉