NaBloPoMo 2016, Letters to Patients, Day 9
To Patients Seeking Bearing and Beacons
Set your intentions for the day.
In the aftermath of the election… I feel an intense need to self-soothe and focus.
A wise friend recently introduced me to a morning practice that has impacted my days in wonderfully tangible ways. He describes a 5×5 grid which he pencils in his journal each morning. He fills each box with a word that he wants to hold in intention for the day. For each word, he meditates on its meaning, then what it would feel like. Then he meditates to feel it and live it already. Throughout the day he then recalls the words and their sensations. He started with a 2×2 grid (four words), then gradually increased it to 5×5.
I have had 9 (now 10) presentations to prepare between mid-August and the end of this month. My practice continues to grow. The kids’ schedules and activities multiply proportional to their heights. Learning this anchoring method from him has been a Godsend for focus and grounding, and I am so grateful.
I started with 3 words, and have practiced inconsistently (this appears to be a pattern for me). But each day that I take time to determine the words and sit with them a while, I notice a remarkable steadiness throughout the day.
Patience. Compassion. Focus. Love. Empathy. Ease. Generosity. Equanimity. Joy. Fun. Peace. Forgiveness. More Love. Connected. Center. Openness. Curiosity. Engage. Movement. Lightness. Ground. Calm. Acceptance. Non-judgment. Happy.
It’s really amazing: Just a few minutes in the morning are all it takes to frame my mind and resolve my heart. I feel steadfast as I walk out the door. I go about my day and forget. Then, in those unfocused moments, the words rise to conscious awareness and I remember, reset, and re-center.
Maybe you’re feeling a little unsteady now, also? Give the Word Intention practice a try. It can’t hurt. It costs a few minutes of time. You can start with one word. You can write it on your hand. There is no such thing as cheating, only seeking and centering.
Best wishes and peace to you.
Thank you for these words of wisdom, Sister Friend. I am catatonic today and seeking relief from the shock and horror. I will try this exercise.
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Love and hugs to you, sister Solange. One day, one moment one breath at a time. My words today are Love. Mindfulness. Restraint. Compassion. Hope. Kindness.
I fear there might be a few rude words in some of those grids this morning!
Yes… The challenge will be to continually allow the emotions to come, and then to let them go and keep moving.
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