Love Notes Wrap Up and an Invitation

Hello Friends!

What a FUN 30 days! It went by so fast, I’m so surprised, and I would definitely do this again! How was it, did you enjoy it? I’d love if you found this month of 12 daily Love Notes both simple and deep, uplifting and grounding at the same time.

I now have a stack of 360 original, unfolded Jar Smile Love Notes that need homes. Would you like some? Here’s my invitation:

Take a look at the thirty themes below.
Which one(s) resonate(s) with you?
Who in your life could use a few of these messages?

I will mail them to you, in an envelope with a stamp and everything!
Let me know if you want them folded or flat.
I can mail internationally, no problem!
Please comment on this post on WordPress, Instagram, or Facebook to request. You can request as many sets as you want, first come, first served. I will send them in whole dozens; no cherry picking. If you only want a few, maybe carry the rest around and strew them in your loving wake?
You can message me your address privately on my Instagram account, @chenger91, or we can figure out something else.

In exchange, please consider making a donation to Braver Angels or Digs With Dignity. These are my two favorite non-profits; they do so much concrete good in our world!
Tell me in your comment how these notes landed for you this month, and how you might pay the feelings forward, either by sharing the notes you request, writing your own, or in some other creative and loving way.

I will take requests through 6:00pm US Central Standard Time Tuesday, December 30th.
I will mark/update the list below as the sets are spoken for.
I think I know what I will do with the leftovers, but wouldn’t it be wonderful if there weren’t any?

The goal here is to spread the Love, my friends–how far can we fling it?
I can’t wait to see!

ADDENDUM: I will strikethrough the sets as they are taken.

1.Transition
2. Rest
3. Work
4. Making Friends
5. Uncertainty
6. Perseverance
7. Balance
8. Revival
9. Lightness
10. Kindness
11. Gratitude
12. Friendship
13. Love
14. Reunion
15. Fitness
16. Remembrance
17. Humanity
18. Learning
19. Bridging Difference
20. Solidarity
21. Dancing
22. Finding Joy
23. Creativity
24. Listening
25. Empathy
26. Patience
27. Homecoming
28. Honesty
29. Change for Good
30. Peace

Typical Smile Jar refill snail mail

Love Notes for Peace

Last set, my friends.

It’s been a slow, snowy day at home. Kids are scheduled to fly out early tomorrow morning, then I’m signed up for two consecutive classes at Ethos. Will get back in the new usual swing of things until they come home again!

Everything changes. So many things stay the same. We humans are so complex and so simple. We make our world so hostile and unforgiving, and yet there is still so much love and potential for peace everywhere we look.

How can we amplify that peace? Is amplifying peace an oxymoron? How does peace manifest and spread? I think it’s actually small and personal, something that speaks to each of us quietly and grows within…Then connects from that small, deeply held place in us to the same in others. I think peace is modeled, inspired, and then cultivated, by and in each of us intentionally over time. Some have a naturally peaceful nature, and they likely model more visibly and effectively.

For the rest of us, it is effortful. Thus the more we can do it together, out loud and mutually positively reinforced, then we can actually amplify it.

Let’s see what comes out of this idea tonight!

  1. Wishing you the comfort and reassurance you need to get to peace, eventually, with anything in life. Just want you to suffer as little as possible.

2. Peace ninja! May yours sit always on your shoulder, watching for your nervous system, to protect it, employing both overt and stealth tactics to keep your being even and strong.

3. When I am around you, your peaceful nature affects me. I feel more calm and I aspire to be more like you in my own life.

4. Whatever brings you peace, darling, whatever helps you de-escalate and feel grounded – both solid and soft – this is what I wish for you.

5. When there is unrest in you, when you feel unsettled, may you not resist it. May you be in that paradox of peace with unease. And breathe.

6. Peace can be difficult sometimes. But that tells us something – it means something matters. There may be exploration to do. And it’s okay to get help, don’t forget.

7. Solitude and communion, challenge and ease, life and death. May you be never far from peace in any of these circumstances and others. May you carry your peace with you.

8. Does “fighting for peace” really make sense? Maybe modeling peace, encouraging it, and working tirelessly, patiently, consistently, lovingly, and peacefully for it. Ya. I think so.

9. With all the chaos and uncertainty that surrounds us today, may you continue to tend the garden of your inner peace, the home of your agency. Peace, dear one

10. Sometimes all we need is to just sleep on it and peace and clarity come in the morning. Not always, but sleep is good for almost anything. May you rest your mind and heart.

11. Deep breaths, dear darling… We know and control so precious few things! May we take solace in the love we cultivate daily!

12. Imagine if we were all a little bit more at peace within ourselves, how much less conflict there’d be in the world? May we each and all keep breathing our way in this direction.

Well I’m pretty happy with how these thirty posts turned out. I’ll figure out soon what to do with these 360 unfolded, organized notes. Your suggestions are welcome! Thank you for reading along, and I hope some of these spoke to you over the month! Peace, my friends.

Love Notes for Change for Good

“Who can say if I’ve been changed for the better. But because I knew you, I have been changed for good.” —Wicked: For Good

I have always loved a good play on words.
Daughter and I saw Wicked: For Good in the theater today–highly recommend!
As always, it’s the nature, development, and evolution of relationships that captures me.
Friendship, romantic connection, love of all kinds, as well as fear- and shame-based decisions and actions… It’s all on my mind a lot this weekend.

So here on the second to last day of my 11th thirty day blogging challenge, I will explore relationships that change us for good. I’m excited to see what emerges!

  1. Was it a teacher? A special childhood friend? Whoever has changed you and your life for good–why not let them know today? You may not always have a chance.

2. “Like a handprint on my heart.” May you be acutely aware of the mark you make on those you meet. And may the mark be one of love.

3. Even if our encounter is brief, I believe we can impact one another in significant ways. Human connection is so powerful that way. Wield wisely, please.

4. Please know how much you matter – Your posture, your face, your words, your actions – no matter how small. Decide how you want to impact others – then own it. Do good.

5. OH my goodness our potential to impact one another’s lives for good! It’s almost infinite, I think! 😀 May we all be reverent of this power!

6. Wishing you people in your life whose influence makes you a stronger, more aware, more honest version of yourself. I wish this for all of us!

7. I so admire you – for committing to your heart’s desire and trusting yourself to pursue success with confidence! You inspire me.

8. Worthy rivals. Respectful, energetic, alert, and engaging relationships that challenge us to strive, to reach, to grow. May you have at least one great one.

9. May we hold ourselves open and willing for experiences that will change us – that will teach us lessons we may not seek. Life is about learning. Let us all be students.

10. On the highlight reel of your life, may you see repeated and bright scenes of connection and meaning. And may those people remain in your life, in your heart.

11. You push me. You challenge me. I grow through the struggle of our exchanges. You make me question and solidify my convictions. Thank you.

12. Because I know you, I have been changed for good. You think and feel differently from me and I learn from you. These lessons are important.

Well, not as good as I had hoped, but a good effort.
We’re almost to 360, my friends. That’s cool. 🙂